I spent 15 years married to a gold digger. Our most explosive arguments were not about infidelity or even the usual family conflicts. Nothing made him more passionate—or angrier—than feeling shut out of my money. And to be clear, I wasn’t a stingy wife. I followed his lead when we made major purchases, gave him access to credit cards that were solely in my name, and even let him convince me that he was entitled to an allowance from every paycheck I earned.
