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The Quiet Exit: Preparing For Your Divorce from an Abuser
“Family law attorneys report that clients who wait too long routinely express regret in waiting too long, wishing they had acted sooner and been better…
Jul 6
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Steffie Jean-Lee
June 2026
F.E.A.R, Seeing through the narc behind the curtain
......what did she see when I spoke with her about my marriage issues… “......Fear…. Intense Fear in your eyes”
Jun 29
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Steffie Jean-Lee
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Your skills in detecting toxic behavior will grant you peace
“I had to start counting the amount of times I made excuses for bad behavior…. By then, I’d already lost the war on toxic”
Jun 22
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Steffie Jean-Lee
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How Narcissistic Christian Abuse Distorts a Woman's View of Herself and God
“God hates Divorce”, which made me feel like the devil for wanting to get away from this man. If he claimed Christ, why did he treat me this way?
Jun 15
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Steffie Jean-Lee
Who Am I Now? Rediscovering Your Identity After Domestic Abuse
I woke up to realize that he had programmed me to be just like him….and I didn't recognize myself anymore.
Jun 8
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Steffie Jean-Lee
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Navigating a Narcissist’s “Flying Monkeys”
The truth is, flying monkeys are entirely willing to buy into the narcissist’s illogical thinking, pass along gossip, and openly support the…
Jun 1
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Steffie Jean-Lee
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May 2026
How to approach money in marriage, after financial abuse
‘We weren't combining much of anything, in fact, none of our household debt was in joint names. Our system was to solely rely on my credit score and my…
May 25
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Steffie Jean-Lee
I was married to a narcissistic gold digger, how did I not know?
When you’ve been through the emotional and financial wringer like I have, you quickly realize that financial exploitation in relationships is very real…
May 18
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Steffie Jean-Lee
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I should have asked for a prenup....and you should too!
If I ever had a time-machine, and could fix just one thing in my past, it would be to tell my younger self to never marry that man without a prenup.
May 11
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Steffie Jean-Lee
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Are you being financially abused? How to recognize it
Financial abuse is not always about the withholding of money; sometimes it is about being imprisoned because someone has made you into a resource.
May 4
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Steffie Jean-Lee
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April 2026
How to break the habit of rumination
He had lived rent-free off me for our entire marriage… and now I was letting him live rent-free in my mind. I learned the hard way that ruminating over…
Apr 27
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Steffie Jean-Lee
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How I Handled Mutual Friendships After Divorce — Without Losing Myself
“I don’t know what to do. I love you both.”
Apr 26
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Steffie Jean-Lee
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